The Bridal Shower

I have never been to bridal showers. Last Sunday was my first taste of an all-girls (naughty) slumber party. I am, of course, not the naughty type so I kind of slightly panicked when my friend Sab and Vergic informed me about the "porn star" theme of our surprise bridal shower for a college friend, Ivy. First off, I do not own any belongings you can consider pornographic. I'm really trying hard to get away from those. Wait, lemme think again... Haha! So, thanks to Nicole Kidman's style in Eyes Wide Shut, I was able to bring a long-sleeved polo. Unfortunately, an insane photographer friend named Mads forced me out of my long-sleeves and obliged me to wear a black spaghetti-strapped dress. It was quite a nightmare to wear 'cause I could see fats bulging out of the dress everytime I look at the mirror. I also could not contend with my friends. Hell, they've got the nicest curves.

I had so much fun that night. I always have fun spending time with the DreamTeam (a group of friends from college) but this time the party was exclusive for girls. Unsurprisingly, I screwed up the surprise due to my stupidity. I was hastily putting away gadgets from the table (while Sab, Irene and Marthina were already hiding on their own as a part of the preparation to surprise Ivy) when the door was opened by Vergic, Ivy and Ara. I panicked and stupidly attempted to salvage the situation by covering myself with a varnished chair. It was really stupid 'cause I was still trying to hide pathetically when the lights were finally turned on.

The party started with several narcissistic activities like recording ourselves while singing and dancing in front of my laptop's webcam. We actually looked like hyenas trying to lip-sync the songs playing on Ara's iPod. I guess this is the product of being left by ourselves without any boyfriends in sight. I was dancing and singing like crazy I didn't even care that I was not that close to Ivy during our college days and it might actually be the first time she had seen me behave like that. I didn't really care about what people would say that night. I was having the time of my life and I have never felt so free just exhausting myself like that.

The night was unbelievable. It started with games organized by Sab such as "Pinoy Henyo", charades and the infamous clay-molding. I could not stop myself from enjoying so much that I have completely forgotten every external factor which has been bothering me lately. The night was naughty, yes, but nobody ever talked about sex. Nobody ever asked who's done it or with whom. It was a crazy night but I must say, it was still a wholesome celebration. I'm not sure how my other friends define "wholesome" but I really believed we were sexy that night in a very wholesome way. :-)At first, I was quite hesitant how to behave because Ivy and I never really hang out back in college. We have lots of common friends but never really had the chance to get to know each other so I was kind of surprised that she was actually very fun and easy to hang out with. I am very happy about her getting married. I heard the groom-to-be is a very spiritual and good-hearted man.Hence, the celebration made me wonder who among my friends would get hitched next. I'm positive it won't be me so it's either Gervic or Marthina. Hahaha just a dumb inside joke! I realized that we're not getting any younger. Sooner or later, our "get togethers" would gradually include lesser attendees. Maybe Sab or Mads would be next in the wedding lane. I don't know. All I know is that I should be ready when that day comes. I have to start taking my life seriously and stop procrastinating like a spoiled brat. I will not be able to just text Irene or walk Me-an into a corner to tell her my frustrations. Sooner or later, we would all be having our different lives. I will not be able to ask Vergic out anytime or chat with Ara about our recent ramblings. I will not be able to debate with Sab about current events or joke around with Marthina. Holy crap, I'm such a worried freak. I just can't help but imagine how it would all turn out after many years. It's really hard when you become emotionally-attached too much with people. You tend to be sensitive with regard to these kinds of issues or maybe it's just me.

What the heck, this bridal shower has more purpose in my life than I have expected. It wasn't just a fun and extraordinary night. It's a night to remember and to be pondered upon. Now, it's time to sigh...

Mass Communication: Changing the World

Mass Communication: Changing the World
Editorial & Column Writing



The world needs change. There is no doubt in saying that. With the rising domination of technology in the world, we are subconsciously putting our lives in the hands of machines. We are risking the essence of humanity by allowing technology to empower mankind. It is inevitable, yes. But Adamson University, a private Catholic institution believes, otherwise, that even with the danger carried by technology, the future generation can still bring about change. In fact, technology can be helpful if only used with proper principle. And the major course responsible for that is Mass Communication.

Mass Communication deals with the science of manipulating the media. Media, especially of today, is considered one of the most powerful elements to bring about change. Yet, in our present time, it is used rather erroneously. Instead of using it for the betterment of mankind, it is being maneuvered to lead us all to sin and deception. But now, it’s time to change all that. For people who believe that there is still hope for a better world, learning the science of communication is the first step. Since media is one essential factor that influences culture, why not start building change in that area? It is undoubtedly an ambitious dream. To penetrate to the media world holding on to the hope that one day you can change its faulty ways. But that’s what distinguishes Mass Communication from other courses, you only need to be an excellent communicator and gradually you will open new avenues for change. Good communication is your primary weapon to lead and motivate people to the right path. Mass Communication in Adamson University not only teaches the mechanics of being a successful media personality one day but also educates and encourages students to trigger moral change in the society.

Now is the best time to change. Though it may take a long time for the change to be done, do not lose hope. Because we believe that no matter how hard and how long it takes, honest and upright media can still be attained if only people learn how to value good and honest communication.

“Whoever controls the media--the images--controls the culture.”
-- Allen Ginsberg